Dr. Pettway’s book is a true story of how unresolved secrets of childhood lead to pain in adulthood. As a psychotherapist, I would recommend this book to anyone struggling with substance use and/or incarceration. Nichole’s story of resilience, faith, and family is disarmingly honest, not shying away from her trauma and life decisions, yet always returning to the message that others are able to follow her lead into brilliance no matter how alone and dejected they may currently feel. Her words provide inspiration and actionable tools for everyone wishing to move forward in life. I thank her role models, community, and ancestors for paving the way for her to share her many gifts. (Sandra J. Hall, LCSW)